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Happily Ever After – bollocks

Well I guess there is no final bow for this blogger…. I thought that I would never need to blog about my affair ever again except maybe in a reporting back kind of way; you know – everything is getting … Continue reading

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My final bow….

So here it is I guess.  All affair blogs have a limited lifespan.  The point where you just cannot either face another post about your pain or you have moved to a better place in your recovery or …. Well … Continue reading

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Depression

I’ve fallen into a bit of a deep funk….  Generally things in my marriage are going well or at least as well as can be expected.  The rollercoaster is not throwing up such big hills and the twists and turns … Continue reading

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Bad week

This week has been the week from HELL and believe me I know a little bit about hellish weeks!! I’ve been stung for a vast quantity of money and nearly lost my house.  I’ve been physically threatened and attempts have … Continue reading

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Stress!!

Stress!!!! Yes there is a whole lot of stress floating around the ol’ Uggos household at the moment.  Things are real tight financially and it’s causing a bit of a meltdown….  Thanks to the crashing economy and other factors our … Continue reading

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Plans

Yes plans! Never in my life have I been so glad to be making plans.  Always before I’ve been bored making plans, thinking of the future, being sensible – look where that shit got me…..  Now we’re making plans and … Continue reading

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Valentines Day Massacre – dodged the bullet?

Yep I dodged THE bullet! I’m still at home and I still have the love of my wife – thank God. Valentines Day (Vday) is a trigger for my wife as one would expect, this is compounded by the atrocious … Continue reading

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Viewpoints

My office building is located right on the top of a hill, not far from the coast and has such an excellent view from the top floors.  Look through the windows on one side and you see beautiful seascapes – the … Continue reading

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guilt

Phew what a bloody emotion that is! For the last couple of years it has pretty much been a feature of my life.  At the beginning of the affair I was consumed by guilt.  What was I doing? Why was … Continue reading

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Flip Side

Just recently I’ve really been reading the blogs of betrayed spouses. That’s not to say I haven’t in the past since my dday, I have but I’ve always felt so guilty that I didn’t read them from start to finish. … Continue reading

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