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Advanced EFT with Inner child work to resolve Daddy Issues – Session 1 |tapthegood.com

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Daddy issues will not discriminate against you whether you are a man or woman, and/or the choice of your sexuality. Implying that, as a child if your father wasn’t the man you expected or wanted him to be, this is going to affect your adult relationships. Note that your father’s behavior whatever it was, has determined your beliefs about men in general. The relationship you had or didn’t have with your father is the foundation upon which you know how to relate with your partner(s), and other people.

In these EFT series I will be using EFT (The Emotional Freedom Technique) to help you to resolve conflicts and negative stories reflecting on your father.

Please remember to go through this session for at least 14 days for it to be effective.

If you want more personalized sessions send me an email at tapthegood@gmail.com. Or simply visit my website at https://www.tapthegood.com and follow the instructions of how to sign up for a session.

In the interim, I’m sending you abundant love from love from my heart to yours.

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Invoking Christ Consciousness to Break all Agreements With Dark Entities

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source-2Dark entities, negative spirits and other angry ancestral spirits can create havoc in one’s life. It takes more than wishful thinking or simple therapy to release the grip on them.

In this POWERFUL prayer, I invoke Christ Consciousness and the angelic realm to break all codes, contracts, agreements and associations plus the grip on this darkness.

Open your heart and allow the healing to take place.

If you need more work done, I specialize in helping clients release and heal from dark stuff.

Contact me if you need help. 

In the meantime, listen to this prayer every day for the next 9 days.

Sending you peace and blessings.

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Tired of Attracting Abusive Men? 3 Tips to Unlock The Subconscious Related- Chains

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Are you sick and tired of attracting abusive men?

You might have daddy issues. Read on!!

It is not only biologically vital but also spiritually imperative to grow up with our parents, mom and dad, or the equivalent, for us to develop and sustain positive-infused mindsets. Although overlooked, without both your parents in the picture as a child, you are bound to search for whoever was missing in the people you meet in your adult life. And that can be very frustrating.

Note that one is also impliedly psychologically and emotionally abused if their father or father figure was always absent in their younger days.

In this article, you will identify one of the problems created by not having a father figure or having an abusive one, and learn three simple techniques that will liberate you from this problem in order to develop healthier relationships with the men in your life.

The Problem:

Without a father figure in your life, you miss out on the security and comfort that a father figure provides (especially one with a healthy mind). A father is literally the first adult male you are introduced to, or is supposed to be introduced to when you are born. As such, he represents men in general and especially how men relate or should relate to women. Your father introduces you to the first standards that you believe every man should possess. If you saw your father treating your mom with respect, you tend to attract or choose men who understand how to treat a woman with respect.

If especially you witnessed your father abusing you or any other members of your family and never stopped abusing them, and/or never apologized, chances are that you have subconscious anger that’s not only directed towards your father, but all men.  The consequences are that you will continue unconsciously seeking out men with behaviors similar to your dad with hope that they might abuse you and then apologize to make up for what your father didn’t do. However, even if you attract men who are apologetic for abusing you, they will not compensate for your father’s abuse. Therefore, you will continue seeking for abusive men, over and over again until you deal with your early father-figure programming.

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The Solution:

Note that the tips I share below are not exhaustive of all the techniques and tools that you can employ to heal your early negative father-programming.

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Take time and write all your early father negative experiences, or no-father negative experiences. Be as detailed as possible. To guide you, you can answer the following questions:

  1. What exactly happened?
  2. Who was there?
  3. What did your father do, didn’t do, or should have done?
  4. In case you didn’t have a father figure as a child, how did this make you feel?
  5. How did those experiences make you feel about your father and men in general?
  6. How did these experiences make you feel about yourself?

Re-examine all the related feelings about yourself that were developed because of your earlier father/no father negative programming

Go through this simple EFT and Ho’oponopono to stop attracting abusive relationships session 

Click HERE to access the video recording.

If you want more, order the Daddy Issues Meditation CD from https://tapthegood.com/spiritualservices/

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Or buy my book (Love, Men and Money: How to Attract and Retain them) with detailed EFT and counseling scripts at www.tapthegood.com/books/ or from Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/Love-Men-Money-Attract-Retain/dp/1480094897/

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Or sign up for my complimentary 30 minutes consultation session to set up counseling sessions that are guaranteed to help you take your power back from the negative past in order to live life on your terms.

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The Source of Inventions: An excerpt from the Book: Do Not Force It, Tap The Good

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Inventions are available to each of us if we open up our minds to them. It is both simple and exciting. If you want to come up with a new idea or service, begin focusing entirely on everything you do. As you go about your day, if you feel uncomfortable about anything you are doing, stop. Begin thinking about ways, means, or products that would have made your activity more comfortable or enjoyable to do.

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An invention is the gap between the uncomfortable and comfortable levels. That is how cell phones were made, to bridge the gap between the discomfort of having to look for someone all over the place, and the comfort of just picking up the phone and reaching them wherever they are.

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The next thing to do is search the Internet for any similar products or services that you think can bridge the identified gap. If there are none, then you have an invention. That idea right there is what you can turn into a mega product or service. The only work for you to do is to develop the confidence in the idea and pursue it limitlessly without letting anyone or anything discourage you. Remember, if you want it bad enough, you will get it.

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Why Feeling Safe With Money Changes Everything

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Most people think abundance is about how much money they make.
In reality, abundance is about how safe your body feels receiving and keeping money.

You can earn more and still feel anxious.
You can save more and still feel afraid.
You can even succeed and feel like it could disappear at any moment.

That is not a money problem.
That is a nervous system problem.

If your body associates money with stress, responsibility overload, conflict, guilt, or loss, it will never fully relax into abundance. Even when money shows up, the subconscious stays on high alert.

This is why people self-sabotage without realizing it.
Overspending, undercharging, giving too much away, avoiding opportunities, or constantly preparing for something to go wrong are often signs of one core issue
Money does not feel emotionally safe.

Safety is not logical.
It is learned through experience, memory, and belief.

If you grew up around financial instability, pressure, criticism, or fear, your body remembers that. It remembers the tension, the arguments, the uncertainty, even if your mind tells you everything is fine now.

In Awaken Abundance Within, we do not force positive thinking over these patterns. We gently dissolve them.

Through EFT and Advanced Ho’oponopono, the book helps you
Release emotional memories tied to money stress
Create internal safety so receiving feels natural
Calm survival-based money reactions
Shift from fear-based earning to grounded abundance

When money feels safe, decisions change.
You stop rushing.
You stop panicking.
You stop shrinking or over giving.

You begin to receive without guilt and without fear of loss.

Abundance does not arrive through pressure.
It arrives when your system knows it is safe to stay.

That inner safety is not something you force. It is something you restore.

If money has never felt peaceful in your body, Awaken Abundance Within offers a clear, compassionate path to change that from the inside out.

👉 Awaken Abundance Within: Your 20-Day Guide to Financial Freedom Using EFT and Advanced Ho’oponopono
https://www.amazon.com/AWAKEN-ABUNDANCE-WITHIN-Financial-Hooponopono/dp/B0D8KDYMJK

Tomorrow, we explore why receiving is often harder than earning.

Why Hard Work Alone Will Never Create Abundance!

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For years, we were taught a very convincing lie
If you work harder, stay disciplined, and push through exhaustion, abundance will eventually arrive.

I believed it too.
I worked hard. I stayed committed. I showed up even when I was tired, discouraged, and doubting myself.

Yet abundance felt delayed, inconsistent, or just out of reach.

Here is the truth most people never hear
Abundance does not respond to effort alone.
It responds to alignment.

You can work yourself into the ground while still carrying subconscious beliefs that quietly block receiving. Beliefs like
Money requires suffering
If I relax, I will lose everything
I must struggle to deserve more
Wealth changes people for the worse

These beliefs live beneath the surface. They do not announce themselves. They quietly influence decisions, opportunities, confidence, and even how long money stays once it arrives.

This is where most people get stuck
They try to fix money problems at the surface level while the real patterns are stored deeper in the nervous system and subconscious mind.

In Awaken Abundance Within, I guide you through a very different approach. One that does not require burnout, force, or hustle culture.

Using EFT and Advanced Ho’oponopono, the book helps you
Identify hidden money beliefs you did not know you were carrying
Release emotional memories tied to scarcity, fear, or loss
Calm the nervous system so receiving feels safe
Reconnect with abundance as a natural state, not a reward for suffering

Abundance is not something you chase.
It is something you allow once the internal resistance is cleared.

If hard work alone created wealth, the most exhausted people on the planet would be the richest. But we know that is not how it works.

When alignment replaces struggle, effort becomes lighter, clearer, and more effective. Opportunities feel less forced. Decisions feel calmer. Money stops feeling like something you must wrestle into your life.

That shift is exactly what Awaken Abundance Within was created to support.

If you are ready to stop pushing and start allowing abundance to flow from the inside out, this book was written for you.

👉 Awaken Abundance Within: Your 20-Day Guide to Financial Freedom Using EFT and Advanced Ho’oponopono
Available here:
https://www.amazon.com/AWAKEN-ABUNDANCE-WITHIN-Financial-Hooponopono/dp/B0D8KDYMJK

Tomorrow, we go deeper into why feeling safe with money matters more than how much you make.

🌙 Subtle Signs of Receiving

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Abundance often whispers before it roars.

A sense of peace in situations that once triggered you.
A breath before reacting.
A feeling of “enough” — not because circumstances changed, but because you did.

These are not coincidences. These are confirmations.

When you shift internally, your outer world begins to respond in kind — not always instantly, but inevitably.

💫 The Energy of “Already Done”

The version of you who lives in abundance doesn’t strive — they embody.
They don’t chase signs — they radiate certainty.

You don’t have to wait until it shows up to feel it.
You’re allowed to live as if it’s already here — because in your consciousness, it is.

🧘‍♀️ Anchoring Practice

Close your eyes. Let your shoulders drop.
Visualize a version of you who already has what you seek.

Now silently say:
I relax into the state of abundance.
I no longer try to make it happen — I allow it to happen.
I am already aligned with all I desire.

Feel the inner shift.

🪞 Reflection

Where in my life am I still acting from fear instead of trust?
How would I show up differently if I believed it was already mine?

💬 Affirmation

I no longer chase. I align. I receive with ease.

📖 Call to Action

If this message speaks to something deeper inside you,
Awaken Abundance Within is your next step — a guide through the inner layers of trust, emotional alignment, and the spiritual psychology of wealth.

👉 Grab your copy on Amazon

Abundance Deepens When You Trust the Process

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Abundance is not always loud or immediate.
Often, it unfolds quietly.

By now, you may notice moments of doubt. A pause. A question of whether this inner work is really doing anything. This is not failure. This is integration.

Trust is the bridge between effort and results.

When Nothing Seems to Be Happening

Growth does not announce itself. It stabilizes beneath the surface.

Just like roots form before branches appear, your subconscious mind needs time to reorganize. Old patterns loosen. New beliefs take hold. The absence of drama is a sign of progress.

Abundance strengthens when you stop demanding proof and start honoring process.

Anchoring Practice

Pause for a moment. Place one hand over your heart.

Silently say:
I do not rush my transformation.
I allow results to mature naturally.
I trust what is unfolding within me.

Notice how your body responds.

Reflection

Where in my life can I replace urgency with patience?

Affirmation

I trust the process and allow abundance to unfold in perfect timing.

Call to Action

If this work is helping you feel steadier and more grounded, Awaken Abundance Within guides you through the deeper layers of subconscious trust and emotional alignment.

👉 https://www.amazon.com/AWAKEN-ABUNDANCE-WITHIN-Financial-Hooponopono/dp/B0D8KDYMJK/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0

Abundance Is Sustained Through Consistency

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Abundance does not disappear when inspiration fades.
It strengthens when practiced consistently.

True prosperity is built in ordinary moments, how you speak to yourself, how you respond to challenges, how you manage your energy when no one is watching. Consistency turns insight into stability.

This is where abundance becomes real.

From Breakthrough to Lifestyle

Breakthroughs feel powerful, but consistency creates trust. Each small aligned action tells your subconscious mind, I am safe, I am capable, I am supported.

You no longer rely on motivation.
You rely on commitment.

Abundance grows when your inner world becomes dependable.

Daily Integration Practice

Choose one simple action today and repeat it with intention:
Pause before reacting
Speak kindly to yourself
Spend mindfully
Rest without guilt

Small actions done daily reshape your relationship with abundance.

Reflection

What is one habit I can practice consistently that supports my sense of stability and trust?

Affirmation

I build abundance through steady aligned action.

Call to Action

If you are ready to turn awareness into lasting change, Awaken Abundance Within offers practical tools to support daily alignment and inner stability.

👉 https://www.amazon.com/AWAKEN-ABUNDANCE-WITHIN-Financial-Hooponopono/dp/B0D8KDYMJK/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0

Choose Abundance as a Daily Decision

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Abundance is not a feeling you wait for. It is a decision you practice.

By Day 10, the real work begins. Not the release. Not the clearing. But the choice. Each day you decide whether you will interpret life through scarcity or through possibility.

Abundance grows where responsibility meets self-trust.

The Choice Point

Every moment offers a quiet fork in the road:
Do I react from fear, or do I respond from belief?
Do I shrink, or do I stand steady?
Do I doubt myself, or do I honor what I know?

Abundance strengthens when you stop outsourcing your power to circumstances.

Grounding Practice (No Tapping Today)

Stand or sit with both feet grounded.
Place one hand on your lower belly.

Say slowly:
I choose to trust myself.
I choose to respond with clarity.
I choose to act from belief, not fear.

Let the words settle.

Reflection

Where in my life am I ready to choose confidence instead of caution?

Affirmation

I choose abundance through my thoughts, actions, and decisions.

Call to Action

If this series shifted something in you, the journey continues.

The book – Awaken Abundance Within guides you deeper into rewiring subconscious patterns and embodying lasting financial and emotional freedom.

👉 https://www.amazon.com/AWAKEN-ABUNDANCE-WITHIN-Financial-Hooponopono/dp/B0D8KDYMJK/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0

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Abundance Is a State of Being, Not a Chase

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Many people spend their lives chasing abundance, believing it exists somewhere outside of them, just one breakthrough away. But abundance is not something you pursue, it is something you allow. When your inner world is aligned, the outer world responds naturally.

Scarcity thinking keeps the nervous system in survival mode. EFT helps calm this internal alarm, signaling safety to the body and mind. When safety is restored, creativity, clarity, and opportunity begin to flow. This is why tapping is so powerful, it works at the root, not just the surface.

Ho’oponopono adds another dimension by releasing emotional memory. When you say “I’m sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you,” you are not blaming yourself. You are clearing unconscious patterns that no longer serve you. Abundance cannot thrive where guilt, fear, or resentment are stored.

True financial freedom begins when you stop proving, forcing, and striving. It begins when you choose peace over pressure, trust over tension, and alignment over hustle. From this space, inspired action replaces exhaustion.

Abundance responds to wholeness. When you feel complete, supported, and grounded, life meets you there.

If you are ready to stop chasing and start receiving, Awaken Abundance Within! will guide you step by step into a new relationship with money, peace, and self-trust.

👉 Get your copy on Amazon today:
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Why Receiving Is a Skill You Must Learn to Master Abundance

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Many people focus on earning more money but struggle with receiving it. Compliments feel uncomfortable, support feels undeserved, and financial ease can trigger guilt or suspicion. When receiving feels unsafe, abundance cannot stay.

Difficulty receiving is often rooted in subconscious beliefs formed through past experiences, cultural conditioning, or emotional wounds. Messages like “don’t rely on anyone,” “be strong,” or “handle everything yourself” may have once provided protection, but over time they block support, opportunity, and financial expansion.

AWAKEN ABUNDANCE WITHIN!: Your 20-Day Guide to Financial Freedom with EFT and Advanced Ho’oponopono gently addresses this imbalance. EFT tapping helps release the emotional discomfort associated with receiving, while Advanced Ho’oponopono clears unconscious resistance to support, generosity, and ease.

As these patterns dissolve, receiving no longer feels threatening. Support is welcomed. Opportunities are recognized instead of dismissed. Money becomes something you can hold without tension or fear.

Abundance is not only about what you give or earn. It is about your capacity to receive without guilt, doubt, or self-judgment.

Call to Action

If you are ready to expand your ability to receive and allow abundance to stay in your life, begin your 20-day journey with AWAKEN ABUNDANCE WITHIN! today.

From Force to Flow: Allowing Abundance Instead of Chasing It!

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Many people approach money from a place of force. Working harder, pushing longer, and constantly striving can feel like the only way to create financial success. While effort has its place, abundance sustained through force often leads to burnout, anxiety, and disappointment.

True abundance grows through alignment rather than pressure. When emotional resistance is present, no amount of effort feels enough. Fear of failure, fear of success, or the belief that money must be earned through struggle can block the natural flow of prosperity.

AWAKEN ABUNDANCE WITHIN!: Your 20-Day Guide to Financial Freedom with EFT and Advanced Ho’oponopono teaches a different way. EFT tapping helps release the emotional tension that fuels over striving, while Advanced Ho’oponopono clears subconscious beliefs tied to struggle and control.

As resistance dissolves, effort becomes inspired rather than exhausting. Opportunities appear without force. Money flows as a result of clarity, confidence, and aligned action instead of constant pressure.

Abundance is not something you chase. It is something you allow when you stop fighting yourself.

Call to Action

If you are ready to shift from force to flow and create abundance with ease, begin your 20-day journey with AWAKEN ABUNDANCE WITHIN! today.

Creating Financial Safety Within Yourself

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One of the most overlooked aspects of financial freedom is the feeling of safety. Many people chase money not for luxury, but for relief from fear, uncertainty, and instability. When the nervous system does not feel safe, money decisions are often driven by urgency, avoidance, or overcontrol.

Financial safety is not only created through income or savings. It begins internally, through emotional regulation and self-trust. Without this inner foundation, even financial success can feel fragile or stressful.

AWAKEN ABUNDANCE WITHIN!: Your 20-Day Guide to Financial Freedom with EFT and Advanced Ho’oponopono helps cultivate inner financial safety by calming the emotional responses tied to money. EFT tapping supports the nervous system in releasing stress and fear, while Advanced Ho’oponopono clears unconscious programs related to survival, loss, and insecurity.

As inner safety strengthens, decision-making becomes steadier. Risk is approached thoughtfully rather than fearfully. Money is no longer a source of constant tension, but a tool that supports well-being and purpose.

When you feel safe within yourself, abundance no longer feels threatening. It becomes sustainable.

Call to Action

If you are ready to build inner financial safety and create abundance from a grounded place, begin your 20-day journey with AWAKEN ABUNDANCE WITHIN! today.