I hate to tell Justin Timberlake, but he is not the one bringing sexy back. When I see stars like Paris Hilton saying, “That’s hot”, I not only want to puke, but I want to scream at them – “No, that’s disgusting; you don’t know what ‘hot’ is!”
In case I haven’t made my bragging clear enough on this site, I would love to tell you who is really bringing sexy back and who is ‘hot’.
What is hot:
* Getting down and dirty, working hard manual labor all day to create a raised garden bed for the insistent spouse.
* Carrying the kids to bed after working that long day.
* Standing up for what your conscience says instead of going to get along.
* 42 years of experience; the last 20 in giving extra effort to master anger and impulse control.
* Wisdom and God fearing.
What is not:
* Never working hard for a good cause, or at least for a good person.
* Caring only for yourself.
* Not having a noticeable conscience.
* Looking for the next self pleasing activity, no matter who is hurt.
* Immaturity and self-imploding.
OK, so I’ve had another birthday and I see myself drawing further away from the young hip generation. I know that this is my view from where I stand in my maturity, but why can’t these kids see the mess they are creating for the ones looking to them for social definitions? Could their influence be so strong because we are not letting them know what a Godly view of ‘sexy’ is?
A few thoughts:
1. Stop avoiding Song of Solomon and normal displays of affection in front of your kids. Let them know that marital sex is healthy and should not be perverted by the world’s views. If your kids are young like ours, of course you are not talking about it yet; but your hand holding, or kisses good-bye shows them what healthy is.
2. Look for sexy in your spouse. Once you get past the burps, the stained t-shirt and the nascar obsession, you might find a real hotty.
3. Help your spouse find sexy in you.
4. Let yourself be ‘faint with love’ over your spouse.
Happy Monday!
Kathy
“Strengthen me with raisins, refresh me with apples, for I am faint with love.” Song of Solomon 2:5