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Comment on Self-pity Revisted by Chaz
https://onedirectionforward.wordpress.com/2015/06/01/self-pity-revisted/#comment-1503
Sun, 17 Apr 2016 14:17:59 +0000
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In reply to Heidi.
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Comment on Self-pity Revisted by Heidi
https://onedirectionforward.wordpress.com/2015/06/01/self-pity-revisted/#comment-1482
Tue, 23 Jun 2015 19:04:25 +0000
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I haven’t read a blog in so long that I can’t even say when… but today I was tripping through my own prattles and wondered what you’re doing. Last I checked you weren’t writing so I’m glad to read what you’re thinking again! We’re on the same page. The 3rd Step prayer has been so instructive for me. It helps me identify the self-pity better than any other person in my life. I’m glad you have others that can assist you. What a gift! Thanks for the post.
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Comment on Self-pity Revisted by S. Keith Barnes
https://onedirectionforward.wordpress.com/2015/06/01/self-pity-revisted/#comment-1480
Mon, 08 Jun 2015 22:47:26 +0000
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Great post, and full of truth Chaz. Glad to know you’re still at it…..even once in a great while. Blessings, Keith
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Comment on Lost out or spared from? by recoverylife101
https://onedirectionforward.wordpress.com/2014/06/29/lost-out-or-spared-from/#comment-1466
Sat, 17 Jan 2015 12:00:35 +0000
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I struggle in a very different way. I am for the most part a loner. I only have one friend and my family. My world is cruel. After leaving my job in 2006, I was the talk of my old workplace eight years later. I told my one and only friend not to tell me what everyone was saying about me. Real friends stick by you. I find that in recovery I am forming new friendships but my heart is still guarded. Great blog Chaz.
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Comment on Renting them space in your head. by Renee midlifelows.com
https://onedirectionforward.wordpress.com/2014/08/07/renting-them-space-in-your-head/#comment-1392
Fri, 29 Aug 2014 01:56:15 +0000
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I have found the more little battles I opt out of, the more the big battles diminish. Good post.
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Comment on Compassion & Humility by Chaz
https://onedirectionforward.wordpress.com/2014/05/24/compassion-humility/#comment-1385
Fri, 18 Jul 2014 20:18:30 +0000
https://onedirectionforward.wordpress.com/?p=1099#comment-1385
In reply to S. Keith Barnes.
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Comment on Lost out or spared from? by Chaz
https://onedirectionforward.wordpress.com/2014/06/29/lost-out-or-spared-from/#comment-1384
Fri, 18 Jul 2014 20:15:36 +0000
https://onedirectionforward.wordpress.com/?p=1108#comment-1384
In reply to Debbie.
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Comment on Lost out or spared from? by jeremiahandrews
https://onedirectionforward.wordpress.com/2014/06/29/lost-out-or-spared-from/#comment-1380
Mon, 30 Jun 2014 01:33:02 +0000
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Hey Chaz. They say, and it reads …”The only thing we have to change in sobriety is everything!” Visiting old circles of people seemed to be a good barometer of where you are today, versus where you were then, and how things have changed. We thought we needed certain things, and to be financially secure, have the right job and know all the right people. The more self centered view of life has given way to seeing what really matters now and how your vision of yourself and others has changed. With time, we may not have it all, in all the right ways, but we are reminded that less is more when it comes to simplicity. As we progress in time, we may come across someone who may or may not owe us an amend, and if it comes, all the better, and if it doesn’t then that is a moment of grace and prayer. Sometimes we grow past people, from our past into a new life, and hopefully, we can move towards letting go of old hurts. We can’t expect everybody we knew to grow up and see the forest for the trees. You noticed it. It did not come, now let it go. Does it do any good to ruminate over it? Pray for that person. You are right where you ought to be in this moment. I’m glad you are still writing.
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Comment on Lost out or spared from? by Debbie
https://onedirectionforward.wordpress.com/2014/06/29/lost-out-or-spared-from/#comment-1378
Sun, 29 Jun 2014 06:03:30 +0000
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Really good post, Chaz. I am thanking Him tonight for all that He has spared me from! God bless you!
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Comment on Compassion & Humility by S. Keith Barnes
https://onedirectionforward.wordpress.com/2014/05/24/compassion-humility/#comment-1375
Thu, 26 Jun 2014 12:53:56 +0000
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Great thoughts here Chaz. I am fully aware how my motives are selfish. If I am in a meeting, or in conversation and see an area I think needs fixing, say someone present has chronic relapse issues, I figure I’ll grab the bull by the horns and bring a topic up so I can fix em real good. After I rise from the dirt from that miserable failure, I ask God to help me say what He brings to mind…always. It is that realization of the Holy Spirit’s presence in me, compelling me to speak, or not speak, so Christ is exalted, God is glorified. I just have to die to self-will, self-exalting.
HI Heidi…. Well here I am 6 months later replying! We’re quite a pair of active bloggers :).
I post on yours just checking in couple mos back. Flag to y
Hear you’re hanging in there.
Yah…. those selfish motives eh? They lurk waiting for an opportunity to jump in and grab the glory or whatever other payoff they seek. Something rooted in selfishness… even subconscious selfishness.
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]]>The funny thing is how I am lifted spiritually. My ego is stroked, but in a way that I feel satisfied that it was not my intent. That feeling never left me face-down when I shared, I wasn’t trying to fix anyone, just be Jesus. Thanks for the post! Blessings!
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