HTTP/2 301 server: nginx date: Sat, 17 Jan 2026 23:08:43 GMT content-type: application/rss+xml; charset=UTF-8 location: https://nextstepcake.wordpress.com/comments/feed/ x-hacker: Want root? Visit join.a8c.com/hacker and mention this header. host-header: WordPress.com link: ; rel="https://api.w.org/" vary: accept, content-type, cookie last-modified: Sat, 17 Jan 2026 23:08:43 GMT etag: "239c559b3a52572746a06de93b57007c" x-redirect-by: WordPress x-ac: 4.bom _dca MISS alt-svc: h3=":443"; ma=86400 strict-transport-security: max-age=31536000 server-timing: a8c-cdn, dc;desc=bom, cache;desc=MISS;dur=331.0 HTTP/2 200 server: nginx date: Sat, 17 Jan 2026 23:08:44 GMT content-type: application/rss+xml; charset=UTF-8 vary: Accept-Encoding x-hacker: Want root? Visit join.a8c.com/hacker and mention this header. host-header: WordPress.com link: ; rel="https://api.w.org/" vary: accept, content-type, cookie last-modified: Sat, 17 Jan 2026 23:08:44 GMT etag: W/"58c1bf419abe0e4d0ac3c2038a1130ae" cache-control: max-age=300, must-revalidate x-nananana: Batcache-Set content-encoding: gzip x-ac: 1.bom _dca MISS alt-svc: h3=":443"; ma=86400 strict-transport-security: max-age=31536000 server-timing: a8c-cdn, dc;desc=bom, cache;desc=MISS;dur=348.0 https://nextstepcake.wordpress.com The various and sundry musings of an aromantic asexual and self-professed asexuality geek. Sun, 30 Mar 2025 02:08:32 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.com/ https://nextstepcake.wordpress.com/2015/07/31/link-dump-early-asexual-sites-via-archive-org/#comment-24404 Sun, 30 Mar 2025 02:08:32 +0000 https://nextstepcake.wordpress.com/?p=452#comment-24404 […] Link Dump: Early Asexual Sites accessible via Archive.org […]

]]> https://nextstepcake.wordpress.com/2014/08/18/i-am-not-sex-favorable-identifying-as-a-sex-indifferent-asexual-and-what-that-actually-means/#comment-24403 Sun, 16 Feb 2025 21:21:03 +0000 https://nextstepcake.wordpress.com/2014/08/18/i-am-not-sex-favorable-identifying-as-a-sex-indifferent-asexual-and-what-that-actually-means/#comment-24403 Great reading your blog ppost

]]> https://nextstepcake.wordpress.com/2020/04/30/naming-differentiating-attraction-orientations/#comment-24402 Wed, 30 Oct 2024 09:03:54 +0000 https://nextstepcake.wordpress.com/?p=3113#comment-24402 Gratefuul for sharing this

]]> https://nextstepcake.wordpress.com/2020/04/30/naming-differentiating-attraction-orientations/#comment-24400 Thu, 11 Jul 2024 21:04:13 +0000 https://nextstepcake.wordpress.com/?p=3113#comment-24400 […] sennkestra discussed the names the ace community gives to its models and concepts of attraction and orientation, in Differentiating Attraction/Orientations (Or, the “Split Attraction Model” by any other n…. […]

]]> https://nextstepcake.wordpress.com/2017/07/18/asexual-the-echoes-c-1985-lyrics-transcript/#comment-24398 Thu, 28 Dec 2023 18:04:11 +0000 https://nextstepcake.wordpress.com/?p=2302#comment-24398 It’s definitely “Don’t try to make her”, meaning don’t try to get her to have sex with you because you’re wasting your time.

]]> https://nextstepcake.wordpress.com/2020/10/01/a-brief-review-of-asexuality-in-manifestos/#comment-24394 Thu, 12 Oct 2023 23:13:23 +0000 https://nextstepcake.wordpress.com/?p=3296#comment-24394 I came across a new ace manifesto from 2022. So, it’s pretty recent. It’s called “ASEXUAL MANIFESTO 2022: RADICAL ASEXUAL POLITICS, 50 YEARS ON.” (Sorry for the caps, I copy and pasted). I love what it says!

]]> https://nextstepcake.wordpress.com/2020/04/30/naming-differentiating-attraction-orientations/#comment-23940 Mon, 31 Jul 2023 11:52:02 +0000 https://nextstepcake.wordpress.com/?p=3113#comment-23940 […] many bi+ people are attracted to different genders in different ways (as are some folks in asexual and aromantic communities). Many folks with this experience are ridiculed and invalidated for expressing their differentiated […]

]]> https://nextstepcake.wordpress.com/2022/10/24/aceweek22partyhat/#comment-21026 Wed, 26 Oct 2022 00:42:42 +0000 https://nextstepcake.wordpress.com/?p=3403#comment-21026 […] Sennkestra is sharing DIY projects for Ace Week. […]

]]> https://nextstepcake.wordpress.com/2020/06/19/why-i-wear-an-ace-ring/#comment-21014 Sun, 23 Oct 2022 19:55:38 +0000 https://nextstepcake.wordpress.com/?p=2874#comment-21014 […] not so common for aces to blog about ace rings, you know? I can think of Sennkestra’s own Why I Wear An Ace Ring and In Praise of Pins, and that’s about as much as I know about. So if anyone else has […]

]]> https://nextstepcake.wordpress.com/2020/05/31/in-praise-of-pins/#comment-21013 Sun, 23 Oct 2022 15:12:54 +0000 https://nextstepcake.wordpress.com/?p=3191#comment-21013 […] not so common for aces to blog about ace rings, you know? The closest other post I can think of is In Praise of Pins. So if anyone else has thoughts on that topic or wants to put together a primer… it looks […]

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