Eventful Autumn

A quick look at Flickr suggests  we had a pretty busy Autumn too!

We went to see the Red Kites at Argaty. I ended up getting C a 1 day photography lesson there for her Christmas. She learned loads so expect even more photos!

Every year Linlithgow organises a Harvest Feast with locally reared spit roast lamb and dishes made from fruit & veg grown by local people. There are lots of activities for the kids & it’s just a lovely, community day. I love our town!

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We made our annual trip to the Festival Fireworks

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The same weekend we also met up with the lovely Elaine & Tech & their families in Largs/Millport.  Who knew Millport had a country & western festival & Largs place host to a load of vikings every year?!

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In the October break we went to London for a week. We went to Richmond to see the deer,

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saw the sunflower seeds in the Tate Modern, went to the British Museum,

went to Borough Market

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met up with friends & went to see Wicked. All in all a great week.

 

Summer Holidays

We had some lovely trips away over the summer.

We went to Wales to the lovely Pembrokeshire coast. It blew a gale much of the time but we had a great time. Lots of amazing things to see

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and the monkeys & associates loved the beach

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We went to the Lake District to our favourite guest house for our first wedding anniversary. Whilst there we went to a steam fair which was an education to say the least. Some lovely steam engines and some “interesting” people.

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Met with S & L for a few days camping in Stratford & visited many Shakespeare related places

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The new car is definitely up to the camping job!

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then on to Cambridge Folk Festival

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At the end of the summer holidays we went up to camp at Findhorn for the weekend. We love it there & I could happily move there if I could afford it.

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Whilst we were there we went to an Historic Scotland day at Fort George.

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So, overall a good summer was had by all.

Bergen

We went to Bergen & got stuck there with the Icelandic volcano ash. It’s a lovely city but hugely expensive.

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Lovely view from the Funicular railway.

We also went on a Norway in  a Nutshell tour which involved lovely train journeys and a fjord trip. The scenery was amazing.

We visited Grieg’s house & had a private tour as there was no-one else there. He was a very wee man as this statue is life size & C is only 5ft tall

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Luckily for us, our hotel did free waffles so when we were stranded & skint we didn’t starve.

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In the end we were rescued by the boat Alex Salmond sent in the hope of getting people’s votes in the general election. Several English people on the boat said they would vote for him if they could as the British Consulate had been worse than useless, something we could also testify too.

It was a lovely holiday & the extension was a wee adventure however I think most future holidays are likely to be taken in places we can get back from by train!

Completely Hopeless

Someone found their way here today & so I popped over to see when I last posted. It was nearly a year ago!

I think part of the problem is that I’m not entirely sure what I want to post here. This started off as a blog recording our journey to become parents but that is taking ages & there are certain aspects of it I’m not sure I want to blog as we go along, (despite the fact that we’re not exactly attracting hundreds of visitors or want to).

I think what I’m going to do is update some major events since I was last here, probably with loads of photos to save the typing, and have a further think about what I want to blog about.

Ideas in the comments box please.

First of 2010

Ok, I admit it. I’m the world’s worst blogger, but what with life, work and twitter I just never seem to find the time.
We’re going on holiday in a couple of weeks to Bergen which we’re looking forward to.
Still no baby making news of note but we’re hoping to have another go in May. C needed a small op before we could try again but that’s done now so it’ll be all systems go come May.
We’re getting a new car this week to replace C’s Multipla. We were loath to give up the 6th seat but it’s had an array of, mostly electrical, problems so we decided it was time for a change. We’re getting a Citroen Berlingo which has only 5 seats but an enormous boot which will be great for the camping gear. Would love to know what car families who go camping and have more than 3 kids have as when we were looking large boot and more than 5 seats didn’t seem to exist.
I’m not promising further blog updates but you never know!

tumbleweed

If it was dusty last time I posted then the tumbleweed is well & truly rolling about this time.

Let’s recap from the last post.

We got married

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and had our honeymoon in the Lakedistrict

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and at Cambridge Folk Festival

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There continues to be no news on the baby making front.  C is going to get her tubes scanned before we try a couple of cycles with stimulated ovulation.

I’m still going to my cello lessons and getting better but it’s definitely harder to do lots of things at once now that it was when I first learned!

C has much the same class as last year & they seem to be doing well.  They’re currently doing lots of business enterprise to raise money for their eco garden so have been making bookmarks & keyrings to sell.

My work is still crazy busy but on a positive note I found out that the tax man owes me lots of money.

Maybe more later!

Bit dusty in here!

Ooops. Haven’t been in here for a while.  Its always harder to update when its been so long so I’ll just say a wee bit about the main stuff.

First things first, C & I are getting married in the summer.  After talking about it for ages we’ve finally decided to get on & do it.  We’re having just a small ceremony & lunch for 15 close family & friends on Saturday 25th July.  We went to choose our wedding rings the other day & have booked Haldanes for our lunch.  On the Sunday we’re going to down to our most favourite B&B for a few days relaxing & good food.  After that we’re off to the Cambridge Folk Festival with S & L and as many other friends who also fancy meeting up there.

On the baby front, we’ve had 2 inseminations so far but no luck yet.  C feels that “something” is happening after the inseminations but it hasn’t come to anything so far so we’ll just have to wait & see.

I’ve recently inherited by old cello teacher’s cello.  She taught me when I was at primary school and I last saw her when I was 10.  We’ve kept in touch over the years though which has been lovely.  In the past few years she has developed Alzheimer’s but her friend who she lived with has kept in touch with me.  She contacted me a few weeks ago to say that my teacher had had to go into a care home but that she’d always wanted me to have her cello & did I want it.  I was totally blown away that someone I hadn’t seen for so long still thought enough of me to leave me her cello.  So C & I went through to Ayr to meet her friend, a fiesty woman in her 80’s, to pick up the cello and talk about my teacher & their lives together.  I’ve had the cello in for a small service & have added it onto our house insurance.  I played it yesterday & it sounds good despite my bad playing.  Time to find a new teacher & get back to orchestra playing I think.

Right, I think that’s the highlights.  I’m doing staff training this weekend so need to get to that.  Will try not to leave it so long next time.

Festive Round up

We’re not at work which is lovely.  We’ve had lots of late nights and lie ins which seem to be our preferred rhythmn but which isn’t really feasible with an out of the home job most of the time.  Work has been crazy for both of us this last few months so we’re very much in need of a break.

We’ve had one month of blood testing for babymaking (in November) but didn’t manage an insemination due to missings C’s best day as it fell on a Sunday.  This month its all occuring over the festive period so we’ll be back on track in January.  C confuses the hospital staff everytime she phones to b0ok blood tests because they are so used to treating people having with IVF or stimulated IUI that they keep trying to book her in for the wrong tests.  We seem to be about the only people having unstimulated IUI at the moment!

We seem to be all organised for Christmas.  We’re having everyone round to us for dinner again this year.  We did this a few years ago when we decided we weren’t playing musical Christmas’s.  It went well but C’s mum found it tricky not being the centre of the universe I think so we’ve been going to C’s parents on Xmas eve & mine of Xmas day for the past few years.  This year everyone seems to want to have another go at it so we’ll see.  Everyone is a bit more settled so I’m sure we’ll have a nice day.  We’ve got pretty much all the food after the organic man arrived with an enormous delivery last night (we’d ordered for S as well so not all ours thankfully!).

Today & tomorrow we’re out delivering pressies to various places but it all feels quite managable.  Its nice finishing work on the Friday then having a few days before Christmas itself.   Tomorrow we need to help S get L’s Christmas present from out house where its been hiding over to hers.  Its a full size adult drum kit so its going to take a couple of trips.  We’re making S & granny up a special survival kit to see them through the next few days of drumming!

We got a new sofa last week which we love so we’ve been doing a lot of lounging about on that.  I’ve been knitting, we’ve been watching the West Wing and various other stuff and just enjoying the veg time.  We’re scheduling in lots more over the holidays.

Hope everyone reading has a great festive season.

Let the baby making commence!

It’s a while since I posted about our baby making adventures as we’d been exploring some alternatives and wanted to know what we were doing before blogging.  After getting fed up waiting for our local NHS board to sort themselves out (despite a very helpful man from public health doing as much as he possibly could) we decided to investigate some local private options.  Glasgow Infirmary now have a private clinic (which they didn’t when we started trying to organise ourselves) so we asked if they’d treat us & they said they would.  They also pointed us in the direction of the European sperm bank which were actually better than the American one we’d been looking at as you got more donor info.  So we’ve had a few appts at the hospital for blood tests etc & they’ve been great.  They keep apologising for the fact that their forms are all geared at heterosexual couples.  We chose donor and are now in possession of a very detailed donor profile with loads of personal information as well as medical info.  We also have a photo of the donor as a baby and an audio interview of the donor.  So much more than is available from UK donors.  I think the government got it all a bit wrong when they changed the anonymity laws but that’s a whole other post!  We’ve ordered our sperm and weren’t expecting it until January or February but when we went for an appt today they told us that 3 vials had arrived (we’ve ordered 7) and that the rest will follow in February.  So we’re finally allowing ourselves to get excited about the prospect that we could actually be parents in the not too distant future.  It’s been such a long trek to get this far that we’ve kind of been waiting for there to suddenly be a reason why we can’t do it.  Now we just have to cross everything and hope that there are no fertility problems etc.  We’ve no reason to think that there are so let’s hope we’re right.  We discovered today that C has a rhesus negative blood group and as our donor is rhesus positive we’ve been reading up about that.  Send all your baby making vibes this way!!

Holiday part 2

We came back from the campervan holiday & I went back to work for a week and 2 days and then we headed off on another holiday.  This time is was me, C, S, L, dog D & dog O (who is another guide dog puppy we’re boarding just now) with the tent to Arisaig on the West Coast.

We had a lovely time and the weather was gorgeous as you’ll see below.  C & I have been to the campsite before.  Its pretty basic but as its right on the beach you can’t complain.  There were loads of people there who clearly go every year & see each other there every year.  They were all from the east end of Glasgow & we were clearly a novelty!  3 women, 1 child, 2 guide dog puppies.  Questions clearly going through the mind of our neighbours included:

“which one/ones does the child belong to?”

“what is the relationship between these 3 women?”

“Why does the child not seem to own a Kappa tracksuit?”

“How come none of them are eating pot noodle?”

That sounds terribly classist doesn’t it but I don’t mean any offence by it.  We were clearly 2 very different groups of people but that didn’t stop L playing with the kids or us chatting to the grown ups, it was just clear that we were a bit of an alien concept!

This was the view from our tent

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We visited Glenfinnan & I improved my Scottish History by learning more about what happened the year before Culloden (which I’d learnt about on the previous holiday).  This is also where the viaduct featured in the Harry Potter film is.  C & I did the train trip last time we were there but funds were tighter this time.

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We also had a paddle in Loch Shiel.

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We saw a lovely big boat (or is it a ship? what’s the difference anyway?) go through the locks near Fort William.  This is the opposite end of the Caledonian Canal to the set we saw at Fort Augustus in Holiday Part 1.

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The weather was hot & sunny so our day on the beach could easily have been on a Caribbean island don’t you think?

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Even S succumbed to Crocs despite saying she’d never own a pair, (hers are the rather naked looking pair with no Jibbitz).

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We took the boat to Eigg for the day which was as lovely as last time.  I took the sea sickness pills and wore some travel bands in order that I didn’t have a repeat of the sea sickness that I has when we were in Australia.  I can declare success!

We saw some seals on the way out

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went exploring

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Did a David Livingston impression after taking a wrong turning

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and saw a basking shark from the boat on the way back

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We finished off the holiday with a gorgeous sunset.

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Can’t beat it.

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Again, more pics here