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Welcome to Elust 192
Cover image courtesy of Goddess Severa.
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Erotic Fiction
Simone Francis, The Model
Erotic Non Fiction
Tantric Connections, Beyond Porn Scripts: Discovering Your Real Erotic Nature Through Tantra
Awakening Your Inner Essence, Rewriting Your Sexual Story: How Tantra Helps You Claim Your Own Desire
Kristina J, Your Erotic Mind Is Talking… Are You Listening?
B R Saiph, Taking the Train: A Chaste Cuck’s Journey from Hope to Exquisite Surrender
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Tantric Sexual Healing, The Temporal Fabric of Desire: How Linear Time Erodes Eros and How Tantric Cyclicality Reconfigures the Erotic Body
Buzz Vibes, 5 Expert-Approved Ways to Make Your Partner Beg for More in Bed
The Sex Shed, 6 Christmas Sex Positions Santa Definitely Didn’t Approve Of
Morgan Destera, The Beginning
Femina Viva, Sometimes how we cope with trauma is worse than the trauma itself
Product Reviews
barefoot sub, Guest Review: Funzze Thrusting Prostate Massager
Sex Toy DB, Tantaly Aurora 2.0 Review: The Anime Fantasy You’ll Need a Gym Membership For
Sex Work
Oz Bigdownunder, Interview With Ethical Porn
The Siren Domme, Like I belong
Fox Digital, The Biggest Mistake I See Escorts Make On Twitter
Sierra Skyy, November Newsletter
Sex Worker Search, Is it Possible to Combine a Sex Work Phone with a Personal Phone?
Hellga, 2025 Roundup. Face-Sitting, Craic, She-cock and Dungeons
Sandra, 2025 Roundup. Hotels, Rope, Feet, and Four Hands
Creators Spicy Tea, Comprehensive Comparison of Adult Content Platforms
Books and Movies
The History of BDSM, CSI S05E05 “Swap Meet”: The Celluloid Dungeon
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Mx Valentina, How my training as a somatic therapist finds expression in kink
State of the World
Frank Noir, Remembering a legend: Jeanna Fine (1964-2025)

Body of Proof is another post-CSI investigative procedural, this time focused on the life and work of medical examiner Dr. Megan Hunt (Dana Delaney). The season 2 debut “Love Thy Neighbor” (aired September 20, 2011) bears a strong resemblance to the CSI episode “Swap Meet“.
An apparently accidental death in a suburban cul-de-sac turns out to be not-so accidental; the deceased has ligature marks on his wrists. “I used to live on a cul-de-sac like this. Nothing is ever what it seems,” says Megan (a metatextual joke as Dana Delaney also starred on Desperate Housewives). The clues suggest infidelity and one of the detectives searches a house and finds a locked cabinet. It opens with the mysterious key found on the victim, to reveal padded handcuffs, floggers and leather hoods. “Guess we know who tied him up now,” says the other detective. The couple who own the house look embarrassed.
Continue reading »- Joseph Mawra, director of the 1960s Olga exploitation films, died in 2025. The Rialto Report has a transcript of a 2016 interview with this reclusive filmmaker.
- From Archive.org:
- Lesbian Sex Mafia Flyers, 1980s/1990s
- Lesbian Sex Mafia Pamphlet, Fall 1981
- Bound to Struggle, Vol. 5, a zine anthology published 2004
- Modern Style Lady B, German magazine published 1989
- Madame X, German magazine published 1985
- Massad No.91, Dutch magazine published 1985

Air date: March 23, 2023, Director: Norberto Barba, Writer: Brendan Feeney
Two women, Zoe Greene and Jenna Scott, are in a nightclub. Jenna is pushing hard for Zoe to date again after the death of her husband. Jenna introduces Zoe to a dating app and gets her to connect to “Klaus Darcy”. Zoe’s online relationship with Klaus escalates to sexting, a little D&S, and gift exchanges, like lingerie. (Zoe mentions that she and her late husband used to get “a little freaky”.)
Zoe sets up a meeting with Klaus at a hotel room, including bondage with her late husband’s neckties. She’s wearing black lingerie and a collar with an O ring. The text messages tell her to pose by the window, and she answers “Yes, sir.”


CSI: Crime Scene Investigation series finale “Immortality”
A suicide bombing in a casino brings the gang back together for one last case. Never mind that Willows is now an FBI agent and has a conflict of interest because she owns the casino, and Grissom left law enforcement to become a maritime vigilante.
One of the pieces of debris from the bomb vest is a square of metal marked “LHK”, which Grissom recognizes as the monogram of “Lady Heather Kessler”. (She used her real last name as a pro-domme?)
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CSI: Crime Scene Investigation S05E05 “Swap Meet”, aired October 28, 2004. IMDB
In “Swap Meet”, the CSI franchise checks another sexual subculture off its list: swingers. While not directly related to BDSM, this episode does illustrate how investigative procedurals like CSI handle alternative sexualities.
The episode opens with aerial scenes of Las Vegas intercut with soft-core style shots of a couple making out. Cut to a hetero couple going to a swingers party in a posh gated community, with the soundtrack of “Vertigo” by U2. This being TV, everybody is younger and prettier than they would be in real life. This being CSI, it’s only a matter of time until a dead body turns up. This time, it’s a woman in a fountain, stabbed in the back and drowned.
Continue reading »Welcome to Elust 191
Cover image courtesy of Valora Saint.
Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month.
Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice, or kinky discussions, it’ll be here at Elust.
If you have a post included, please re-post the latest edition on your own blog, ideally with your own unique comments next to each link, or a paragraph for each category and/or write your own introduction.
For SEO purposes, non-identical re-posts of Elust are much better for search ranking, and it’s much more appealing for your readers.
Thank you Jerusalem Mortimer, History of BDSM, Hellga and SWS for re-posting Elust 190. Re-posted on my blog too.
Ideally, if everyone writes a sentence or two of their own thoughts, in their own words next to each of the links in the version of Elust on their own blog, that makes the post unique enough that search algorithms treat it as new content and it gives readers of your blog some insight into your thoughts and a new, deeper connection and understanding of you as they see what you thought while reading those posts. For example.
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Sex News
The Sex Shed, The Sex Shed is looking for brand ambassadors & reviewers!
Erotic Non-Fiction
Morgan Destera, What Can I Say…
Tantric Connections, The Longing Beneath Success: Remembering How To Feel
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantric Embodiment and the Alchemy of Power: Transforming Desire into Collective Awakening
Kristina J, Let’s Talk About Touch (and Why Communication Is The Sexiest Thing You Can Do)
Awakening Your Inner Essence, The Secret to Lasting Longer Isn’t Control — It’s Connection
Erotic Fiction
B.R.Saiph, Locktober Reward
Jerusalem Mortimer, In the Realm of the Sensei – Prologue 17
Jasmine Gold, Opening chapters of Mindgames, a dark dystopian novel about naked sex slaves
Fern River Club, After the Come-In (Part 1)
Product Reviews
Spices of Lust, Womanizer Peach Review
Oz Bigdownunder, Nothosaur Avoyo – Centaur Horse Ejaculating Dildo – Review
Sex Work
Sex worker Search, A Guide to Selfie Photo-Shoots For Sex Workers
Lita Mackenzie, An Imperfect Quick Guide to Finding – and Verifying- a Companion
Ulla Burns, No Safeword for the Soul -Maternal Domination without a script
Sierra Skyy, Feminism and Sex Work; Have We Lost the Plot?
Elizabeth of London, A naughty Nurse
Hellga, Sit On My Face and Tell Me That You Love Me
Book and Movies
Liz Black, Two New Bimbo Releases Are Here – Two Series Completed
History of BDSM, Nine and a Half Weeks (1978)
- Art Vintagique exhibits the Fredi trilogy, a set of 1929 novels about same sex desire, bisexuality, BDSM and fetishism, with Art Deco illustrations by Gaston Smit.
- The Spring 1982 edition of Coevolution Quarterly published an article by Patrick (then “Pat”) Califia about “Feminism and Sadomasochism” (Pg.33-40), republished from Heresies.
- The Authentically Kinky podcast interview bondage model Jewell Marceau about her many careers and her chronic mouth pain from overuse of ball gags.
- The Humanist lays out the new wave of neo-Puritan activity in the USA.
- From Archive.org:
- The English Vice (1978) by Ian Gibson
- The Color of Kink by Ariane Cruz (2016)
- Hardcore Crafts (1976), a photo book about sexually explicit handicrafts
- The History of Flagellation: The Whip as an Instrument of Punishment, Torture, Self-Beatings, Religion and Erotic Stimulation (1946) by Joseph McCabe
- Flagellation & the flagellants : a history of the rod in all countries from the earliest period to the present time (1909) by James Glass Bertram
Dying for Sex S01E06 “Happy Holidays”

After Molly, Niki and Sonya celebrate the one-year anniversary of Molly’s cancer return, she has another dom-sub session with Neighbor Guy. Along the way, Molly gets turned on with him, but her anxiety returns, represented by a vision of a man with a blurry face. She partially opens up to Neighbor Guy about her childhood sexual abuse, and that she’s never had an orgasm with another person. She tells him she wants to try to orgasm with him, and he’s eager to help.
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In S01E05, “My Pet”, Molly continues seeing (and dominating) Neighbor Guy, and starts seeing Pet, a man into puppyplay, complete with costume and collar. However, she hasn’t told either of them about her cancer. She orders Neighbor Guy to finish himself off and goes into the bathroom to finish herself off with a vibrator.
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