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Comment on Acceptance by nomoreblues
https://giselendsit.wordpress.com/2010/07/14/acceptance/#comment-64
Fri, 16 Jul 2010 19:13:19 +0000
https://giselendsit.wordpress.com/?p=131#comment-64
hi gisel, i am so happy for you!
you sound like you have sorted things out and accepted things as they are and are moving on with your life…
i hope the pain and sadness continue to lessen as you and your husband enjoy your strengthened connection together… ]]>
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Comment on Acceptance by secretlifeofjane
https://giselendsit.wordpress.com/2010/07/14/acceptance/#comment-63
Wed, 14 Jul 2010 13:03:44 +0000
https://giselendsit.wordpress.com/?p=131#comment-63
I wrote a post awhile back about acceptance- it’s the first step and certainly doesn’t mean that pain goes away, just that you accept it and move on. I am glad you found some peace.
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Comment on Acceptance by giselendsit
https://giselendsit.wordpress.com/2010/07/14/acceptance/#comment-62
Wed, 14 Jul 2010 12:41:53 +0000
https://giselendsit.wordpress.com/?p=131#comment-62
In reply to Stacy.
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Comment on Acceptance by Stacy
https://giselendsit.wordpress.com/2010/07/14/acceptance/#comment-61
Wed, 14 Jul 2010 11:53:44 +0000
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I have spent the past hour reading your entire blog. I relate to you so deeply. I was in an EA with a family friend for almost 4 years. I am now trying to unravel this mess I have made for myself. I am married almost 23 years and I am now finally trying to fix what is broken with us. I too am at acceptance….but that feeling hurts at times.
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Comment on Real Life by secretlifeofjane
https://giselendsit.wordpress.com/2010/07/08/real-life/#comment-60
Fri, 09 Jul 2010 12:54:29 +0000
https://giselendsit.wordpress.com/?p=128#comment-60
I am glad you’ve found something that works for you. I know that low contact would not work for me. When I ended my affair, we worked together, and it was just too much for me. No contact has been good. There are no laws when it comes to these things. You have to figure out what works best for you. However, I’d warn you to reduce the contact. Think of it from your husband’s point of view. Would it be ok with him? That’s what keeps me in check most of the time.
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Comment on Real Life by giselendsit
https://giselendsit.wordpress.com/2010/07/08/real-life/#comment-59
Thu, 08 Jul 2010 14:51:57 +0000
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In reply to Wenchy.
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Comment on Real Life by Wenchy
https://giselendsit.wordpress.com/2010/07/08/real-life/#comment-58
Thu, 08 Jul 2010 13:25:51 +0000
https://giselendsit.wordpress.com/?p=128#comment-58
you make perfect sense
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Comment on A shot across my bows by giselendsit
https://giselendsit.wordpress.com/2010/06/23/a-shot-across-my-bows/#comment-57
Thu, 08 Jul 2010 08:22:15 +0000
https://giselendsit.wordpress.com/?p=126#comment-57
In reply to secretlifeofjane.
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Comment on A shot across my bows by secretlifeofjane
https://giselendsit.wordpress.com/2010/06/23/a-shot-across-my-bows/#comment-56
Wed, 07 Jul 2010 15:40:13 +0000
https://giselendsit.wordpress.com/?p=126#comment-56
Hey Gisel- You ok? Update please.
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Comment on A shot across my bows by starsaroundmysoul
https://giselendsit.wordpress.com/2010/06/23/a-shot-across-my-bows/#comment-55
Sat, 26 Jun 2010 19:22:20 +0000
https://giselendsit.wordpress.com/?p=126#comment-55
Gisel, just wanted to write to let you know I am still reading your notes, and still thinking of you. I agree with Jane finding your reaction to be totally understood. I don’t know which is worse, my other object of affection is physically far removed, so no chance of seeing him. He manages to stay right within my heart to torment me with possibilities. Maybe if he was here I would feel different.
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you sound like you have sorted things out and accepted things as they are and are moving on with your life…
i hope the pain and sadness continue to lessen as you and your husband enjoy your strengthened connection together… ]]>
Hi Stacy, thanks for your comment, and for taking the time to read my blog! I agree, acceptance doesn’t seem to stop the hurting – the pain and sadness are still there, aren’t they? I wish you all the best with trying to fix your relationship with your husband. X
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]]>Hi Jane – sorry, I didn’t realise how long it had been. I am ok – just added a new post.
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