About

I’m married. And at the beginning of this year I fell in love with someone else. He’s married too. We spent three months chatting, getting to know each other, flirting and (on my side at least) falling crashingly, desperately and disastrously in love…

We kissed. A few times, over the course of a week. But neither of us wants to mess up our own or each other’s marriages. And the way we were going was heading seriously in that direction.

So  we ended it. We have agreed to have no contact, except when we occasionally have to see each other at work. I am working on my marriage, and am happy to be doing so.

But my heart is breaking as I try to get over him.

So that is what this blog is for. I hope that recording how I feel, day by day, will help me to heal, and help me to recognise when I do (and don’t) make progress with this process. Grieving for him hurts like hell, and I need to get some of my thoughts and feelings out of me – this seems like as good a place as any to do that. Welcome to my world!