What we decide about or make a choice of is – whether to continue or put an end to it. A decision which puts us to the test; a decision which challenges our sanity and strength.

In my story, Eliza decided to leave. She knew she would suffer a great deal. She accepted the difficulties that came along with her decision to end it, or shall I say, to kill the feeling. I tell you, it’s a tough act to follow.

To continue or to end it … no matter what you choose, each of them has its own consequences. List down all the possible consequences, then ask yourself what you can handle and what you cannot bear. Then decide and act on it.

@Honey Eliza died, but only momentarily. She died and lived again, to tell the world that one will never know how it feels to become a winner, until you have first felt how it is to be wounded and pained.

Eliza now happily works in an architectural firm owned by her husband.

I thank you all.

hello,
i want to forget the person i really love,because our relationship is forbidden,but we love each other so much,he is 12 years younger than me and he is also single,i fell in love with him more than my husband,my husband’s job is in the ship so he is always away from us,until i met this guy suddenly,then we fell in love with each other ..how can i forgot this guy??he is always with me even if it is very hard for us,i have 3 kids that is why it is hard to manage our relationship..
we already rich the 2 years in relationship and i though he and his girlfriend had broke up,but one day i discovered that they did not broke up..i am very sad and it hurting me,i can’t sleep because i am so jealous,he told me that he can’t break his girlfriend because i am married but he didn’t want to lose our relationship and we want to be with each other..
please help me to survive this kind of situation,i can’t handle this,and i am always crying,cannot sleep at night,always thinking of what will happen if he will leave me?? i hate this feeling so much,you know sometimes i am thinking,better to die than to live my life to the fullest!!!

I was not given a chance to be acquainted with you. I had only known you by name or maybe you also do know me on the same way but never did we see each other face to face. Therefore, I personally have nothing against you. However, I had stolen something precious to you. This thing that you treasure, something that you think is yours wholly but is being shared to me without your knowledge.

I apologized for being such a taker. If only sorry can vanish all your despair or it can stop you from hurting so deeply. I honestly did not intend to take him from your possession and I swear I won’t and I can’t. I am fully aware where should I place myself and that is just next to you and to your children other than his priorities. But the time we spent together gave me contentment and happiness beyond description. How could I ignore those loving acts which separate us from reality? Promises that we have bind us as a couple undercover. It is hurtful to hear him uttering his I LOVE YOU’s for you whenever you talk as I lay beside him on your own bed. But the pain disappears as he presses his palm on my own palm, a sign of apology that he had to say that before he ends his conversation with you. I am wondering how you could not answer back his Iloveyou’s? or just even show a bit of warmth to compensate his sacrifices and hardships for being away from you and your children.

I don’t have to go into details as how I had taken your man and seduction was never a medium for we are both consenting adults in sorrow. This thing between us is not just a FORBIDDEN AFFAIR, not just about lust to satisfy the thirst of two bodies. We found our match who understands us and with whom we can share the burdens of our lives which we cannot even share to our so called partners. I had found the match of my soul and I believe he also did.

Dear, your man was such an honest person before I came. He has been a loving husband and a responsible father as he is until now. Maybe you had taken him for granted or you had forgotten that he is more than a provider of the home you both built together. He needs constant affection from a spouse he chose to live his life. I once had him before you and how I wish I could bring back time so he suffers no more. If only you could see the pain in his eyes whenever he thinks of you. Have you ever asked yourself why he opted to send you and your children away from him? Yes, maybe. But this is not because of what we have. He has his reasons which can only be changed by you. No husband would choose the longingness of not having his family near him rather than be happy beside his spouse and children.

I envy you for having such a wonderful man. Ponder deeply before this man will slowly be taken away from your possession. Think less of your wants. The needs of your spouse are far more important.

-The Other Woman

I found the story very painful. I wonder, why she cant bear her feelings. My story is more critical because I am married and he is also married. We never had sex, but we always go on a dating,hugging,and kissing. Still, it is a forbidden love affair. Till now, I cant find any way to kill this feeling I have but I am hoping that day will come. I wish, I can bear it openly.

Thanks & more power.

– Marc Shaw

Hello,

I read your story about finding love again and I have to say I felt like I was reading my own…My husband and I have been together since we were teens and things have not been so great. I to found someone who made me feel safe and strong but just like you my someone was a realative. We were so in love and when it came to an end it almost killed me. My advise to you is end it on your own terms know in your hearts that you will always care for each other but it just can’t be. You see my relationship ended because my husband walked in on me kissing his family member! It destroyed my life him finding out like that and my heart was broken when my new love was removed from my life and I never got to see him again. I know it’s hard but with time it gets a little easier…good luck!

I’m also familiar with forbidden love. Being in a turbulent marriage for more than a decade has pushed me to this. I found comfort and love from a person I least expected. I can feel my heart beating again, feeling warm and important. I felt reborn and inspired. I like myself when I’m with him which is a contrary when I with my husband who has abused me for so many years. However we both know that there will never be any future for the two of us. Not only for a fact that I’m married but also for the fact that he is a relative. The Love we have feels so true but we both know that it has to end somehow, and it hurts like hell. We are still in the process of figuring out how to stop it.

Hi kris,

Don’t dwell on the theory that if someone gets clinically depressed, he or she is a weak person. We were all born with the highest degree of emotional strength, but things happen when we least expect them, and we are not totally prepared for it. The human mind is too complicated, and if the brain is focusing on too many things, the neurotransmitters just get awry and give wrong signals to our emotions. It makes us ssooo sad, lonely, feeling rejected, or even hating ourselves. Separation, is something we don’t like to happen from our loved one. But there are actions that are beyond our control and could not be considered as our fault. There is someone above who can control everything, pray and He will not abandon you. Curing depression doesn’t take overnight. It heals with time. Be patient. God considered you strong, so He gave you something you could handle. Don’t give up. You will emerge a stronger person after the dark journey.

Feel free to get in touch with me. I am always here to help. Would you like to share me your story?