I once lived in a lavish home, with an address most people would associate with wealth. At the time, I was free from financial stress and just about all material lack. The house had a pool, expensive wood-work, a huge garden, and even a large patio one could relax in. I had everything I ever wanted. But I was also very sheltered and the attitudes of the persons who lived with me, made it a prison sometimes.
So I decided to go exploring and to follow my heart. Lately, in fate’s bid to save me from my ignorance and my lack of a place to stay, a friend invited me to live at her home with her family. Here, life was simple, noisy and…well, unusually comforting. The love of her family and the hearty welcome helped me decide that yes, this will be my new home.
There was no lawn or gate to speak of when one stepped out the front door, only a long stretch of road which connected rows of houses to each other, to the basketball court, and to the local market. It wasn’t the seat of luxury; there had been times when both my friend and I slept on the floor or languished in the unbearable heat during the summer.
People woke up early to go to work or to school. The streets bustled from sunrise ’til sunset, even deep into the night when cock-fights or basketball games were held at the basketball court (which was almost always every
day!). The rowdy audience would keep me awake hours at a time.
Unlike the rhythmic, relaxing progression of activities in my former home, it seemed that everything came and went randomly (and noisily!) in my new abode. Lunch could be eaten at 4 in the afternoon. Dinner at 2AM. Laundry could be started after all the establishments had closed, to end when the sun rose. It all depended on one’s schedule at work, as though life revolved around the workplace and habits of the workers. Perhaps it did. Everybody here lived practically for the moment, hand to mouth. A day without work could mean a day without food.
On a few occasions, I look out of our small balcony and realize a world experienced by more than 98% of the Metro’s population. It is beautifully ugly. It is hard. It just won’t let up. Life seems to close in upon itself to make or break those who live in it. The attitudes here, so very different from my middle class values, could very easily shut me in a box. But I’m made to think that more dangerous boxes are also available to those who are better off.
Amidst all that, both worlds have taught me the joy of widening my horizons and of meeting friends from different walks of life. Most of the people I’ve met are refreshingly down-to-earth, rife with experiences and struggles unknown to me. Come to think of it, I’m probably the one with a large chip on her shoulder.
It’s a rather complicated place for simple living. Right now, it’s my home. This is Barangay Libis, Quezon City. I’ve only been here a few months but my affections are growing for this vibrant, strange and sleepless neighborhood.



