We want a baby.  End of story. 

We have tried and tried over the past 7 years but have had a lot of heartache which I could list here but honestly it doesnt really matter.  There was a lot of shit, it was hard, we got up we found a new plan and we kept going.  Not always forwards, sometimes we went backwards and upwards and downwards. 

A tonne of IVF cycles with my own eggs didn’t get us pregnant enough to get a baby.  We then travelled to the US for a donor egg IVF cycle….results pending.