“ the One who seeks…finds…”
– Dholu
Hi 👋 I am Dholu,
and I am learning to live my life, one day at a time...
it’s a pleasure to meet you!
I welcome you to my personal blog; a space where I explore my thoughts, experiences, and the connections that shape my journey. This blog reflects my conversations with myself and the special people who hold an important place in my life.
Here, you’ll find reflections, philosophies, and spontaneous musings that capture my evolving perspective over time. There’s also a special section called “Spirit Guides,” where I share insights from wise souls who chose to graciously guide me along my path.
I hope you enjoy your time here. Feel free to log in and join me in this ongoing exploration of life and self.
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I’m not entirely sure why I chose to call these scripts Mind Wave. Honestly, I think I wanted them to be like tweets, but I didn’t want to use that term. So, I went with something that felt more personal — something that spoke my mind. Maybe it’s a bit silly, but I still love it. These are just random thoughts that might not make sense to everyone, yet for some, they might capture exactly what I felt. I’m curious — how do you see them?
Another morning of confused state. I know what tasks I have to do today. But the question persists. What do I truly want to achieve. My friend…
I had a strange experience today. At the time of my lunch I was blissfully attended by the person who took my order by already punching in…
in the past two days I have been to boldly informed that I do not think well before speaking. That my words are not well thought of…
I have this widget for my phone that shows a random quote. Today I came across the one that says “Flow never force”. I cannot understand the…
There seems to be a constant deterioration in the air quality in my city. It could also be my lungs 🫁. But I am feeling difficult to…
With so many things to do in my list I find myself shifting up and down on tasks. Majorly because the tasks require other people to perform…
Your past is a lesson… Not a life sentence. Forgive yourself and focus on the future. Mel Robbins It seems nice to know how simple this quote…
Apna Ghoto, apna nasha karo… – cited casually by Smt. Anita Keswani, awesome mother of my Jija ji, Karan Keswani while chatting about how people make too…
Steve Maraboli says, ”Cry. Forgive. Learn. Move on. Let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness.” What does this even mean? Does it refer to…
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My blog posts! Curated experiences put together in the form of words and pictures. Wonder what you would make of them…!!!
Quantifiable approach to Purpose of my life
I had a chance to sit with Amit Sachdeva, my childhood buddy. We happened to chat about what could the purpose of our lives be. He opened up by asking me what is it that I wanted in life in…
Do it now
Found a new meaning for the idiom, “Kal kare so aaj kar, aaj kare so ab”. It has never been about doing tasks, it is about detachment by completion. – Realised while trying to explain to my wife the merits…
My Path
“Tend to my own goals, thoughts, ambitions. Tend to my own path, that which is neither good nor bad, but my own” – Realised while playing a game called Star Wars Squadrons and witnessing the story of two sides of…
New year wish
Away from the digital wishes,I send you an original lyric,I hereby brew a potion of wishes,Even though I am not a cleric,May you find the best in the world,Which actually is nothing but scenic,Please accept my heartfelt say,Hope this year…
The first wisdom
Network as much as you can but keep them as acquaintance not friends… and keep friends….. friends. – Steve Gupta I received the very first wisdom from my son. It speaks of control, filter and clarity. I realised the formidable…
Seeketh Findeth
The one who seeks… finds… – I have had this realisation from some time and I think it’s best to pen it down. One does find something when one seeks.
Echoed Presence
Where do you live, asks the Lady,Close to you, says the naughty baby,The Lady shrugs off, says don’t jest,Tell me the place where each night, you rest,The baby points a finger, towards the Lady’s behest,I live at a place where…
The Mirrored Permit
Permission given to another is actually a permission given to myself… Realised at the time of caring for my mum through her cancer, I came to see that permission isn’t really granted to the other person — it’s permission I…
Futile Complaining
“Lucky I am, if I have time to think about anything” – Bhupinder Ji, 18th October 2025, Khanna I have just had an incredible realisation bestowed upon me by my awesome friend Bhupinder Ji. He described the acquisition of peace…
Failure Rethought
The failure is not because you are not worthy, It’s because you are not doing what you are meant to do..!!! realised while talking to Sir Emanshu Alavadi, friend of my awesome brother in law, Karan Keswani while having a…