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Is second chance in life a blessing or is it a déjavu?

This blog allows me to share my thoughts with millions of people who are suffering in silence just like myself.  I am going through a traumatic period in life. I know if I don’t do something, or anything, to distract myself, I may not be able to hold on for long. So, I put hopes in my blog to help me getting my life back and to move on to a better one with the loves of my life. I welcome good positive vibes/comments especially from those who are going through similar hell in life. Together, we support each other in the virtual world of reality.

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  1. Thank you for visiting my blog. I take my hat off to you for doing your blog and for being transparent about what you’re going about. Things can only get better!!!!! And they will!!! Hang in there girl! Check out some of my blogs….I’ve been through some things.

  2. Dr. Cherry, we’ll never realize the pain behind the eyes of those we encounter in life. Stop and smell the roses, they say. But, we should also take time to stop and “see” the souls (Avatar reference). We ALL suffer from life’s blows…some more quietly than others. Find a great support system, change your reaction to life, and remember this quote, “I have decided to be happy because it is good for my health.” It will get better, but it has to begin with you. Best regards.

  3. Thank you for visiting my blog and for liking my latest post (“Her blue heart”), i’m honored! And may your heart be blessed with all the love you ever dreamed! All the lightening thoughts and good vibes for you,to protect you on your journey trough life!
    Alicia

  4. Sometimes life can be quite a handful. The best thing I can offer is take one day at a time. Saying that other people have it rougher does little when life is crumbling around you. I am glad you are blogging as therapy. Good luck

  5. *hugs, hard* Yeesh…that sounds like a whole lot of no fun. I know most of how you feel, even if my yuck is different from yours. My (72 and 69yr. old) parents have a favorite saying for when I mention how much I hurt, or feel bad. “Don’t feel like the Lone Ranger” In other words, “We hurt too, so it doesn’t matter if -you- hurt.” This is total bullsticks. It’s like me saying “Help, help, I’m on fire!” and them saying “So what, I am too.” It’s not a comparison, it’s not a contest, it’s just a cry for understanding, for someone to just say “Wow, that’s gotta suck! Let me know if there’s anything I can do…” *sighs* Well, in an ideal world, that’s what’d happen…but we don’t live in an ideal world by any means, so we (the ones who care) have to do what we can, when we can. On that note…I’m sorry you’re going through this, and I’ll keep thinking about you and wishing you well, because that’s all I can do. *hugs again*

    KC & Co.

  6. Putting down on paper and reading it is cathartic. Sometimes it helps the pain and hurt to see it in writing and then be able to address it and discover what it is and why it is. I firmly believe there are always better days ahead. Surround yourself with light and love and positive people….even if it’s other positive bloggers….every little bit helps. Light and love to you!

  7. You’re doing the right thing by reading my poems. Ha-ha!. (I was down for a long time, but I feel blessed and happy so much of the time now. Find things to feel good about, no matter how small, and feeling good will grow. It’s a practice. Or like a plant you water a little every day.)

  8. Hey cherry blossom I felt the same as you not so long ago and that’s why I have returned to my roots in HK. I am in a far better place in my head, I wish the same. Congratulate yourself on having the courage to crawl out of your comfort zone and take a leap in the dark.

  9. A good friend once said: “This too shall pass.” Whatever you’re going through, although it doesn’t feel that way, it’s temporary. The dark clouds *will* roll away and things *will* get better. Only death and taxes are forever. LOL

    On a more serious note, call on Jesus the Christ for help. In my experience, on the two occasions when I felt really desperate and cried out, audibly, for His help, He always answers.

    Jesus, I trust in You.

  10. Thank you for the “like” on my blog post 🙂
    I am sorry you have suffered so much. It is encouraging to see another blogger who is suffering but still writing and still pressing on. God bless you.

  11. Even in our darkest hour, there are angels to comfort and be with us, if we allow them entrance. I cannot know your pain, as you cannot know mine, perhaps, but we can support and be there for each other in understanding. Through our pain there is truth, and love for the suffering of each other. No one need be alone. I am a listening ear, if it is a small comfort. Blessings….FE

  12. Thank you, Dr. Cherry Blossom, for checking out my blog. 🙂 It sounds as if you are going through a very difficult and painful period in your life. Of course that I do not know God’s plans for you, but I’ll remember you in my prayers that the Lord will ease your sufferings.

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