“You’ll learn, as you get older, that rules are made to be broken. Be bold enough to live life on your terms, and never, ever apologize for it. Go against the grain, refuse to conform, take the road less traveled instead of the well-beaten path. Laugh in the face of adversity, and leap before you look. Dance as though EVERYBODY is watching. March to the beat of your own drummer. And stubbornly refuse to fit in.”
— Mandy Hale (The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass
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Thank goodness it’s Friday.
I was so exhausted I fell asleep while I typing this blog out.
(I am so boring 😑 🤣)
whenever I miss or two days of work it’s like a catastrophe happened. I am meant to figure out what happened!
It’s like every manager was running around like chickens with their heads cuts off!
At first I didn’t notice anything was amiss.
After all, I was busy trying to get my drive thru in order.
My first order was a nincompoop! “Bacon egg muffin and a large orange juice!”
“Was that a meal or a sandwich?” I asked.
“Obviously, it’s a meal! I ordered the meal!”
My head snapped back and I glared up at the cvs screen. The customer was lucky he was outside!
“I wouldn’t be asking you if it was a meal if you ordered it right?” I snapped.
There was silence. “Oh,” he mumbled “ yeah ok”
That was it! I was done using my nice voice or my big Boy voice. Grumpy cat was gone now bitchiness was activated!
I was cleaning and stocking up, when one of the managers stormed into drive thru and grabbed all the bar towels “you aren’t supposed to have any towels on the counter!” He snapped “why do you have towels on the countertop!”
The McCafé person was stunned “but how am I supposed to clean?”
That should have been my first clue that a shitstorm was brewing. Bar towels on a counter top were messy. And violation.
I sighed and gave myself a mental face palm. “With cleaning spray and paper towel” I explained. “Like I am?”
I was taking orders when I started to get thirsty, my stomach was still churning. I took a cup and went to the sink next to my POS and had a few sips of water.
“Becky!” Derpy bellowed.
Water sprayed everywhere. Coughing, I whirled around wiping my face and glared at Derpy.
“What are you doing?!” He demanded.
What does it look like I am doing? I am in the middle of taking orders and trying to have a drink of water! I thought peevishly.
“I saw you have a cup of water! You’re hiding by the sink! Didn’t I tell you to throw the cup away after you are finished?” He went on.
I finally managed to end my order, and I spoke coolly “I only had a sip of water” I answered “because I was in the middle of a order”
“Well you kept filling it up,right”
“Um that’s because I had a sip took the order and filled it up because the cup was filled up to here” I gestured to the cup.
He blinked obviously annoyed. “Don’t use plastic cups! They are expensive! And ask to have a drink”
How about I don’t because I’m not a child and it’s my right to have a glass of water. Thanks though. I haven’t left my position but ok.
As I’m filling out a drink order and passing it along to the presenter, Pamelo gasped. “Becky! Did you use your cup to fill up the apple juice?” She smirked and she and the McCafé person laughed at my horrified expression.
“No!” I exclaimed.
“Derpy!” Pamelo turned to Derpy “Becky is using..”
“Stop it!” I snapped. “Stop! Are you trying to get me trouble!”
Derpy turned to fix me a less than amused look. “What’s going on?”
“Nothing!” I glared at Pamelo who was laughing. “Pamelo is trying to get me into trouble!”
That was serious. A used cup. Food contamination was not funny.
“Run Derpy run pretend you don’t hear their shenanigans!” I said as they continued with their not so funny jokes.
The morning progressed with customers trying my patience.
It was like why!
- A hashbrown meal. (A pancake kids meal!)
- Everything muffin (no it’s not a bagel. It was a sausage bacon egg muffin!)
- $5 burritos meal (yeah no that’s not a thing)
Later on in the afternoon, the maintenance crew started dismantling the old paper towel dispensers. Which led me to conclude either head office was coming this weekend or health inspection had come by unexpectedly and now they were scrambling to fix everything.
Despite everything, I had a good day. I was energized and laughing a lot.
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A little clip from a Korean drama called May I Help You reminded me of my senior year when I first started interviewing for a job.
I put in a few applications and the first call back I heard from was a department store called Zellers. (Canadian version of Target)
My best friend who had graduated/married already had told me to dress for an interview. I was to wear dress slacks/trousers or at least black jeans. A nice appropriate shirt, blouse or sweater and do not look bored when I was being asked questions.
Bored? I was absolutely clueless!
I greeted the manager politely. Answered the basic questions about my experience my high school education and myself.
Then the manager began explaining how the cashier job would work. I was lost within a few seconds.
Float? What the hell was she talking about? She just called it a register a moment ago?
I swear I must have born on the wrong side of barn because my intelligence was lower than an ox!
The manager must’ve seen my expression on my face because her demeanor instantly changed and she got short with me.
I didn’t get the job.
My second job interview went well however the training?
Wow!!!
My training in lobby was a piece of cake after all my mother was a professional housekeeper. She drilled into me how to clean.
It was behind the counter I had problems with.
A regular customer would order a mocha (we didn’t have specialty drinks back in the Stone Age)
Every day for two weeks she had to explain to me how to make the mocha.
How did I survive counter when I could barely figure out how to use my brain I don’t know!
Next I was training on fries. What a disaster! “How did you know what size a small fry was?” I asked. The fries were all the same size. The manager stared at me.
“What are you talking about? I just showed you the sizes!”
“No the sizes! How do you know which sizes of fries go in the large fry box?”
The manager wanted to kill me then. “There are no size of fries!”
I had to wash dishes by hand and it was hard because the hot water would run out and I had to also wash machine parts. That cut into the time I had to do dishes. The owners wife had to work on fries until I was done. Cold water+greasy dishes? Barf!
I was grateful my brain decided to actually work and I was able to do another position other than fries/dishwasher! It took seven years for my position change! Two years-four years for anyone to be cross trained
Then I had the brain of a pea!
Now I have the patience of a pea!
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I had sudden image of being in bed like this and my rumble bum started!
Oh my word!
Oh no!
No one would make it out alive!
Such a funny thing to think about when watching a cute clip!
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I had a surprisingly good sleep last night.
I had been feeling awful.
After I had spent time at my parents I just wanted to sleep.
I kissed my cat hello.
She ran into the bathroom and promptly laid on the towel.
I laughed. She knew what time it was! Rumblebum time!
However, she jumped up as if something someone had touched her. She stared at the towel, then cautiously pawed at it.
My heart kicked up. Cats only do that if they’re on the hunt, and caught something.
There was nothing on the towel. I shook the towel and laid it flat on the floor. Daisy wouldn’t go back on it.
I ran my shower.
I stood under the blissful hot water enjoying every second of my shower when I felt my stomach churn and I vomited.
Half digested food spewed into the tub. Of course I was blind, and all I could see was this long flat white scaly thing dangling on the side of the tub.
I started vomiting again, between cries of disgust and horror. Oh my word! The mind will go through so many scenarios! Jumping to conclusions! The panic!
All I could think of was? Parasites! like in the medical tv shows!
When was the horror going to stop?!
Finally I managed to stop spewing my guts everywhere. I had to unclog the drain. Oh my word…
I had to reach down and clean up the mess. That meant touching the scaly white stuff.
Chicken skin and lettuce!
For fuck sakes!
I cleaned the shower and then myself and went to bed.
I woke up feeling better in the morning.
When I got to work, I was in an ok mood. There wasnt a McCafé person so I actually had to do work.🤣
However I became exceedingly frustrated with the women customers. I had to practically draw pictures when talking to them. Using my Big Boy voice? Didn’t help.
I guess I had to out Karen the Karen’s!
“Is it possible to get iced cream?”
Me: no.
Customer: so like I can’t have a iced cream in the morning”
Me: I don’t have iced cream.
Pretty explanatory. There is no iced cream. Move on.
Customer: so what time can I have iced cream? At lunch time then”
There went the cup.
Me: “ma’am, I don’t have iced cream. There is no iced cream! The machine is broken!”
Customer: “at all?”
Every order I had to dumb down my sentences. One guy insisted that the double cheese and the melt were the same.
A regular customer was ordering iced coffee. “And a vanilla”
I waited for her to finish her sentence.
“Did you want the iced coffee or the vanilla latte?” I asked finally.
“A vanilla”
Again I waited for her to tell me.
“Did you want vanilla iced..”
“I ordered an iced coffee..” she began.
Aw hell no! Just answer my fucking question! This isn’t rocket science!
“I am asking you did you want the vanilla iced coffee!” I snapped.
“I’m trying to tell you that I ordered iced coffee and vanilla..”
“Ma’am!” I lost my shit. “You ordered two iced coffees! You said vanilla! I’m trying to get you to tell me if the vanilla is an iced coffee!”
“No it’s vanilla coffee!”
“Good please answer me when I ask you!”
She then pulled up to the window and demanded to talk to a manager because I was rude.
“Don’t blame me because you were too stupid to answer a simple question!” I grumbled.
The manager sighed
I was so happy when I got home.
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I am Cornholio! TP For my bunghole!
Are you threatening me!
Ah yes, Beavis!
A never ending joke among my friends was how I was like Beavis.
I like Beavis🤪☺️
This showed up on my feed courtesy of a “friend” 🙄🤦♀️
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Dove Cameron and Ryan McCartan were still on Liv and Maddie when they began dating and formed the musical duo Girl and the Dreamcatcher.
They released a few singles when their relationship ended due to dysfunctional relationship and conflict.
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The Lodge: Believe That
Such a great feel good song. This had been on repeat for awhile back in the early ‘20s
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Dove is starring in a new series on Prime.
56 Days by Catherine Ryan Howard (published August 2021) is an award-winning thriller and crime fiction novel set in Dublin during the COVID-19 lockdown. The story follows a couple, Ciara and Oliver, who move in together shortly after meeting. When detectives find a decomposing body in an apartment 56 days later, the narrative explores what happened during that intense period.
Wow!
What a Provocative glimpse into Dove’s new series!
Dove Cameron’s sensuality has teased her fans in her music videos ie: Breakfast, Boyfriend and French Girls. And her photo shoots.
She has definitely come a long way from her Disney days.
I will admit I loved her tv show on Disney. It was so quirky.
Dove played twins in Liv and Maddie.
Once the tv show ended she guest starred on her ex’s show The Lodge ( Thomas Doherty 🥵)
The Lodge had great music!
Dove of course had several Disney movies under her belt. (The Descendants)
she really turned heads as Ruby in Marvel Agents of S.h.i.e.l.d
I really can’t wait to watch this series 56!
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I should be snuggling up with Daisy under the blanket watching a drama or TikTok!
However I am sitting here, my patience and anger growing minute by minute!
I have been waiting for two hours on my grocery delivery!😡
I wanted to make ramen with tomato gochugang sauce and dumplings! But no! I had to settle with left over fried tofu and chicken egg roll.
I should have realized this was how my day was going to end!
Why?
I was crushing people’s dreams. a few minutes before my shift ended the fryer had to be worked on. No fries. Boy, customers were angry! 🤪😂
I woke up feeling a bit better. I was hoping my shift would go by fast but my hopes were crushed.
My day seemed to drag on.
My mood soured when the cash person kept talking over me and lane 1. I couldn’t hear my customers. I asked Lane 1 what the cashier’s problem was. She shrugged. The cashier again started talking when I asked my customer to repeat his order. I finally snapped.
“What? What? What is your problem?! I am trying to take orders and you are talking! Stop talking and take cash!” I shouted.
“Becky, she said she paid out the wrong order”
I threw a cup. Of course!
“If you are going to talk on the headset? Speak English!”
A manager walking by, stopped and sigh. “Becky why are you having a meltdown?”
“I don’t know,” I replied sarcastically “maybe the cash person should be doing her job properly or I will be retraining everyone on drive-thru!”
He sighed “I will have a talk with her”
Did my mood improve? No.
Customers were ordering like they have never been outside before.
Maybe I was grumpy because I needed a bit of sugar, so I sucked on a candy.
They put a kitchen person in drive thru after lunch. That wouldn’t have been too bad. But whoever trained him for drive thru didn’t do it well. I kept thinking “is this what it’s like to work with me?”🤪😂😂
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😈🥵🥵
Lee Soo Hyuk and Seo In-Guk!
Wow! My favorites!
I watched only one episode of High School King of Savvy. Seo In-guk is the protagonist.
Lee Soo Hyuk plays a serial killer in his next drama! Oh be still my beating heart!
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If you could make your pet understand one thing, what would it be?
If I could make my pet understand one thing?
If Daisy could understand the words coming out of my mouth, I would tell her how much of a blessing she is to me. I love her so much. She makes me so happy!
I tell her that every day🤪🤣
So if she could understand me?
I would tell her don’t be a picky eater! There are starving cats out on the streets!
“You ain’t made for the streets! You stay on the balcony!”
“Don’t you meow at me in that tone of voice! You already had treats!” But I give her a treat anyway ☺️
“Daisy, I’m trying to go to the bathroom in peace! Go play with your toys!”
“How about we snuggle under the covers!”
“I want a ketchup kiss!”
I was thinking about how Daisy would never know what my real voice sounds like – because I speak to her in a disgusting sweet baby voice.🤢🤮
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You know you’re old when your gag reflex is nonexistent!
I was brushing my teeth when I started to cough. A few seconds later I vomited into a little wash basin that was near by.
Wow, my snack that I finished 2 hours ago made an awesome comeback! Not a pleasant smell either.
I almost gagged again.
Don’t breathe it in.Do NOT breathe in!
I brushed my teeth again and tried not to gag.
I finished up and walked back into the bedroom.
Cackling evilly, I thought how Daisy would have to smell me if she was going to snuggle.
My laugh faded when I realized I had to smell it when I breathed it in to my mask!
Nooo!
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Either I have become incredibly lazy or getting comfy is exhausting!
Why does it take a thousand years!
- Deciding if I want girl dinner.
- Cleaning up after dinner
- Night shift.
- Getting the BiPap machine ready
- Brush teeth
- Showering- is it an every thing shower or just a regular shower.
- Put hair up, hair is always in the way!
- Putting on the sock, gotta lube up the fat leg🤪
- Decide if I want to watch kdrama or TikTok
- After a while decide which podcast to listen to while I sleep.
- Put electronics away, put mask and go to sleep
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My week went well, when I slept with my machine. I truly appreciated the difference it made in my sleep and energy levels.
However, my fat leg was rebelling against my evil regime again. I felt my leg and the rest of my body was warring against each other and then me. By the end of the work day I was struggling to keep myself going. Simple chores, were becoming a never ending struggle.
I had a slight panic attack when my robot stopped working. I had to take the remaining energy I had to try and fix it. Ha!
I cheered myself up by going online to shop. I was like a little kid again deciding what I wanted. I wanted everything and anything! All the things my heart desired and wanted. Yet a part of me felt guilty for trying to buy something that wasn’t practical.
Ugh, shut up Practical Nancy! Fancy Nancy wants all the things!
However, I ended up buying practical things!🙄 like a new robot.
It was a bit frustrating, to spend a few minutes to tidy a day and become exhausted. by the time my robot arrived I was exhausted to even glance at it!
Oh well, I guess I can enjoy relaxing. How much lazier can I get? Better yet how long can I stay still before I get anxious about my apartment being dirty?
I suddenly felt the urge to listen to the ending song to the classic Canadian cartoon: the Raccoons.
1980s Sunday nights were not complete without the Raccoons, Disney and of course Hockey Night in Canada.
I hated the Raccoons!
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Whatever song was number one on your 10th birthday? That’s how 2026 will be for you.
My 10th birthday was 1986.
On My Own by Patti LaBelle & Michael Macdonald.
Yikes! That’s how it always is 💕
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Tasha: I’m switching out my app what are you doing.
Person: I’m waxing your hairy asshole.
Person: oh my god Tasha!
Person: I’m playing the piano what are you doing?
Tasha: I’m bringing your nipple back to life!
Oh my word! I almost choked on my lunch! 🤣🤣🤣
Re: watching TikTok on my break
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