4,250 – The Reintroduction

My last post on this blog was exactly four thousand, two hundred fifty days OR 11 years, 7 months, 18 days ago.

What a difference a(n approximate) decade makes.

I’ve flirted with the idea of coming back here to resume sharing my thoughts and opinions, but never got around to it for one reason or another. After sitting at the desk in my office for what seems like hours, the spark to reopen and resume hit.

I may not be Hov, but allow me to reintroduce myself:

I’m a newly 38-year-old guy still living in the Mid-Atlantic who’s chugging along in that same career I received my college degree in way back when. Been single for a minute but oddly not bothered by it as much as I would’ve been back in my 20s. I’ve learned a lot, lost a lot, experienced a lot and I’ve laughed through it all.

While I’m not yet sure if I’ll go back to posting as much as I used to, I can ensure that whatever I post will be authentic and open. I guess its time to pull the dust covers off the furniture and open the windows to let in some sunlight and fresh air.

Welcome back to The Black Lounge.

-B.

The song of the moment: “Life Will Be” by Cleo Sol

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The Return.

I’ve been staring at myself in the mirror for the past few weeks and I really don’t like what I see. Up until last August, I was doing well with my weight loss goals. I really didn’t like going to the gym, but I went. Between Kickboxing, Pilates and the bit of weight training I did, I was maintaining my body weight and was feeling pretty good about myself and good in general.

But towards the end of August, my world experienced a bit of a shift. I was laid off of my first post-college job with about a week’s notice. In addition to this, the weekend I lost my job, I was moving to a new apartment about 15 miles away from where I lived and was dealing with a super-stressful relationship/situation at the time. Once this “perfect storm” happened (in addition to having to conserve funds by any means necessary), I stopped going to the gym. Continue reading

Fort Totten Station, Chapter 3 #XD30

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5 P.M. ascends upon the District not too long after the meeting ends. Workers spill out of their buildings and onto the street to reach their next destination. It’s a bright and beautiful day filled with the sounds of various conversations mixed with birds chirping and the ever-present noise of Rush Hour. ____ and Jade walk down the sidewalk en route back to the subway station they emerged from nine and a half hours earlier. Jade has her usual post-work pep in her step, while he is obviously distracted by the day’s events. Continue reading

Fort Totten Station, Chapter 2. #XD30

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He continues to look down at his right hand, oscillating between feelings of panic and disbelief. “Wait. Where is my ring?” He looked down at his hand as if the Silver ring would magically appear. Jade snapped her fingers in front of his face, saying “Don’t trip. You probably left it at home on the sink.” The train pulled into L’Enfant Plaza and the pair disembarked. Jade updated him on their work projects as they ascended to street level and into their office building. He zoned in and out as his mind drifted to his ring. It was passed down to him from his Grandfather on his 18th birthday and he had rarely taken it off since that day. Continue reading

Fort Totten Station, Chapter 1 #XD30

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Fort Totten Metro Station

The bedside alarm jolted him awake. 5:45am, it flashed. He wiped his eyes as he sat up in a regular attempt to gather himself. Today was his first day back at the office since he fled DC two weeks ago on what he called “the vacation to end all vacations”. He glanced over at the silhouette laying next to him, buried under the comforter and breathing softly as if the alarm never sounded. He paused and smiled, remembering the night before. After taking in the moment and a deep breath,  he placed his feet on the floor and made his way to the bathroom to prepare for work. Continue reading

2011: A Year in Music

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2011 was a good year in music. I discovered a few new artists, spent most the time discovering new music via Pandora and Spotify and enjoyed what I’ve discovered. Since I’m a cool guy and all, I figured that I’d share (via my Last.fm page) the 10 artists I’ve listened to the most in 2011.

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The Story.

This song has been in my head for the past few days as I’ve been thinking about a range of things. Just thought that I’d share it.

 

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